What? So you are diving in the dating pool of digital technology, huh. You’re in the wild west! You’re fishing in an ocean teeming full of fish. Some of them are shiny, alluring and others…not so much. Hey, who ever said it was easy to find love? I would 100% recommend these guides to anyone.

Profiles first. Consider your profile to be your digital “handshake”. Your profile should be both firm and friendly. If you want to make a statement, but not come across as desperate or clumsy, then include a quirky fact about yourself. Add a unique fact about yourself, such as how well you juggle. Photos matter too. Choose photos of you in action, rather than bathroom selfies.

We’ll talk now about messages. First message: the worst! Try to avoid using cliches, such as Hey or What’s up? Avoid them. They are conversation stoppers. Reference something on her profile. You can ask her about a dog if she says that they love dogs. Also, humor is a great way to connect. After all, who doesn’t like a good giggle? You don’t want to be a wannabe stand-up.

It is important to respond quickly. It’s not funny to wait days before responding. Do not bombard her every minute with messages.

Okay, you have some banter going on. That’s great. It’s time to get tricky: suggest a date without appearing desperate or creepy. You can keep the conversation casual. “Hey! I know a great coffee spot downtown. Wanna grab a mug sometime?”

It is important to always keep safety in mind. Online dating can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Choose public areas for your initial date and inform someone who is close to you where you are going.

Ghosting is a phenomenon that has been around for ages. This is when someone suddenly disappears after hitting it off. A modern-day Houdini trick that makes you feel confused and frustrated. This happens more than you might think. So don’t get upset when it does.

If everything works out well, what then? Fantastic! You can keep the momentum going by scheduling fun dates which show your different personalities.

In any new relationship, communication is key. Don’t be afraid to express what you want early. You’ll save yourself and the other party time.

You should remember that dating apps can help you find potential partners outside your social circle. However, both of you must be genuine and willing to work at it.

While online dating doesn’t always lead to a prince or princess, it can be a great experience if done with an open-minded attitude and with genuine intentions.

Do not hesitate to dive in and enjoy the waters of digital life armed with this advice.